Lovely Sayaries

BAHUT UDAAS HAI KOI TERE JANE SE,

HO SAKE TO LAUT KE AA KISI BAHANE SE,

TU LAAKH KHAFA SAHI MAGAR EK BAR TO DEKH,

KOI TOOT SA GAYA HAI TERE RUTH JANE SE.

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Jis kisi ko bhi chaho woh bewafa ho jaata hai

Sar agar jhukao to sanam khuda ho jaata hai

Jab talak kaam aate raho, humsafar kehlaate raho

Kaam nikal jaane par humsafar, koi doosra ho jaata hai

Ghum nahi tha humko kabhi zamaane ki ruswaaion ka

Takleef hoti hai jab koi apna khafa ho jaata hai

Dil ki khalish aksar jaan leva ho jati hai lekin

Dar-e-dil ek had ke baad dard-e-dawa ho jaata hai

Hara-bhara hai gulshan-e-yaar, yeh bahar ke din hai

Khizan aane par dekho ek ek patta, kaise juda ho jaata hai

Yahi sachchai hai, haqeeqat hai, yahi dastoor-e-zindagi hai

Kuch der milte hain humraahi,phir har koi tanha ho jaata hai...!!!

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Aansoo May Na Dhoondna Humey

Aansoo May Na Dhoondna Humey,

Dil May Hum Bas Jaayenge,

Tamanna Ho Agar Milne Ki,

To Band Aankhon May Nazar Aayenge.

Lamha Lamha Waqt Guzer Jaayenga,

Chund Lamhoo May Daaman Choot Jaayega,

Aaj Waqt Hai Do Baatein Kar Lo Humse,

Kal Kya Pata Kon Apke Zindagi May Aa Jayega.

Paas Aakar Sabhi Door Chale Jaate Hai,

Hum Akele The Akele Hi Reh Jaate Hai,

Dil Ka Dard Kisse Dikhaaye,

Marham Lagane Wale Hi Zakhm De Jaate Hai,

Waqt To Humey Bhula Chuka Hai,

Muqaddar Bhi Na Bhula De, Dosti Dil Se hum Isiliye Nahin Karte,

Kyunke Darte Hai,

Koi Phir Se Na Rula De,

Zindagi May Hamesha Naye Log Milenge,

Kahin Ziyada To Kahin Kam Milenge,

Aitbaar Zara Soch Kar Karna,

Mumkin Nahi Har Jagah Tumhe Hum Milenge.

Khushbo Ki Tarah Aapke Paas Bikhar Jayenge,

Sukon Ban kar Dil Me Utar Jayenge,

Mehsoos Karne Ki Koshish To Kijiye,

Door Hote Hoye Bhi Pass Nazer Aayenge

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Lovely SMS

itna chaaha tha tujhe meine,

paane ki dua kee ti khudaa se,

paakar aisa dard diya hai meine,

ab bhulne ki dua maangta hu rab se,

khuda bhi kaise rootha hai mujse,

yaadein teri aur dilaata hai muje,
raah ab dekhta hoon mein,

ajaaye tu kabhi kahin se,

sookh gayi ab aankhen humari,

dard hota nahi ab kisi se,

khuda bhi kaise rootha hai mujse,

ek pal ko baras banata hai aise,
mehfile bhi lagati hai sooni,

yadon mein teri jab doob jata hoon mein,

tanhayee se kaapta hoon aise,

khudko mujrim jab samajta hoon main,

khuda bhi kaise rootha hai mujse,

adhero mein mujhko khada karta hai aise.
soorat main talaash ta hoon teri…haseen teri milti kisi mein…nazron mein basti hai tu kisi ke…kuch adaaon mein pata hoon tuje…khuda bhi kaise rootha hai jahan se…rooh teri kyun na daali kisi mein...............................................

Friends

Friends will come and friends will go,

The seasons change and it will show,

I will age and so will you,

But our friendship stays, strong and true.

There's nothing as nice as someone who shares, your laughter, your secrets, your wishes and cares, someone who's there through your good times and tears, who stays by your side as your friend through the years.

Standing by, All the way.

Here to help you through your day.

Holding you up, When you are weak,

Helping you find what it is you seek.

Catching your tears,

When you cry.

Pulling you through when the tide is high. Just being there, Through thick and thin, All just to say, you are my friend.

FriendsA friend is someone we turn towhen our spirits need a lift.

A friend is someone we treasurefor our friendship is a gift.

A friend is someone who fills our liveswith beauty, joy, and grace.

And makes the whole world we live ina better and happier place.

You are friendly, kind and caringSensitive, loyal and understandingHumorous, fun, secure and trueAlways there... yes that's you.Special, accepting, exciting and wiseTruthful and helpful, with honest blue eyesConfiding, forgiving, cheerful and brightYes that's you... not one bit of spite.You're one of a kind, different from othersGenerous, charming, but not one that smothersOptimistic, thoughtful, happy and gameBut not just another... in the long chain.Appreciative, warm and precious like goldOur friendship won't tarnish or ever grow oldYou'll always be there, I know that is trueI'll always be here... always for you.

I believe in angels, The kind that heaven sends,I am surrounded by angels, But I call them friends.

How To Make Friends For Life

Three Steps Towards Friendship
Friendship and friends continue to remain central to our lives. The relationship that we share with our friends is grounded in a mutual concern as our friends help us in shaping up our personalities as well. Even in this age of online social networking and ecards, the need of expanding the network of friends, whether online or offline remains a primary concern for people. We may have a very vague understanding of what makes a friend but we all want to have a good many number of friends around us.
Research has shown that the quality and nature of your friends are one of the key influencing factors in achieving happiness, self esteem, and satisfaction. Friends often affect the health and energy of a person as well. More and more people are increasingly turning towards their friends for support and mutual sharing rather than communicating to their relatives; and this sociological phenomenon has escalated the desire to make more friends. Though friendship is an impulsive relationship developed between two autonomous individuals marked by a voluntary, emotional and mutual concern, but there are certain steps, which, if implemented can win you friends or at least help you get close to those whom you want to make your friends.
The first step to make friends with someone is to make them like you. If they don’t like you in the first place, it is unlikely that they’ll be eager to become your friends. To let someone know that you are genuinely interested in them, simple gestures like a little smile and calling him by his name can lay the basic foundation. To make the other person feel important you need to be a good listener and encourage the other person to talk. Give your honest and sincere opinion but do not overtly criticize or make fun of him or her.
The second step of making someone your friend is to develop a mutual consideration between each other. You need to share his or her perspective and for that it is necessary for you to develop an inclination to see things from the other person’s point of view. To become best of friends you must show a genuine concern and consideration for your friend’s desires and opinions.
The third and final step towards friendship is to show your unconditional support and encouragement towards your friend. Moreover, you also need to be very clear about your expectations from your friend. If what you expect from the person you want to befriend, matches with what that person can and want to contribute in friendship, the developing friendship between you and your friend is assured to flourish, making both of you gratified with mutual emotional bonding.
Friendship has overwhelming significance on both social and individual level. Friendship doesn’t only provide us with emotional as well as utilitarian support but it also helps us to improve our personal identities. So it is quite natural to feel the urge to reach out and make new friends, expanding your friend’s circle. Using the internet and the associated services like free friendship ecards come as a natural extension to this escalating aspiration. Friendship remains familiar yet quite ambiguous for our deeper understanding of this elusive relationship but then again, friends remain the most important ingredients in the recipe of life!
by Sean Carter

How Many Friends?

The old man turned to me and asked"How many friends have you?"Why 10 or 20 friends have I,And named off just a few...
He rose quite slow with effortAnd sadly shook his head"A lucky child you areTo have so many friends," he said
But think of what you're sayingThere is so much you do not knowA friend is just not someoneTo whom you say "Hello"
A friends a tender shoulderOn which to softly cryA well to pour your troubles downAnd raise your spirits high
A friend is a hand to pull you upFrom darkness and despair...When all your other "so called" friendsHave helped to put you there
A true friend is an allyWho can't be moved or boughtA voice to keep your name aliveWhen others have forgot
But most of all a friend is a heartA strong and sturdy wallFor from the hearts of friendsThere comes the greatest love of all!!!
So think of what I've spokenFor every word is trueAnd answer once again my childHow many friends have you???
And then he stood and faced meAwaiting my replySoftly I answered"If lucky...one have I"
"You!!!!"