Sunday, February 3, 2008
Friday, January 25, 2008
Lovely Sayaries

Lovely SMS
raah ab dekhta hoon mein,
mehfile bhi lagati hai sooni,
soorat main talaash ta hoon teri…haseen teri milti kisi mein…nazron mein basti hai tu kisi ke…kuch adaaon mein pata hoon tuje…khuda bhi kaise rootha hai jahan se…rooh teri kyun na daali kisi mein...............................................
Saturday, January 12, 2008
Friends

There's nothing as nice as someone who shares, your laughter, your secrets, your wishes and cares, someone who's there through your good times and tears, who stays by your side as your friend through the years.
Catching your tears,
FriendsA friend is someone we turn towhen our spirits need a lift.
I believe in angels, The kind that heaven sends,I am surrounded by angels, But I call them friends.
Tuesday, January 8, 2008
How To Make Friends For Life

Three Steps Towards Friendship
Friendship and friends continue to remain central to our lives. The relationship that we share with our friends is grounded in a mutual concern as our friends help us in shaping up our personalities as well. Even in this age of online social networking and ecards, the need of expanding the network of friends, whether online or offline remains a primary concern for people. We may have a very vague understanding of what makes a friend but we all want to have a good many number of friends around us.
Research has shown that the quality and nature of your friends are one of the key influencing factors in achieving happiness, self esteem, and satisfaction. Friends often affect the health and energy of a person as well. More and more people are increasingly turning towards their friends for support and mutual sharing rather than communicating to their relatives; and this sociological phenomenon has escalated the desire to make more friends. Though friendship is an impulsive relationship developed between two autonomous individuals marked by a voluntary, emotional and mutual concern, but there are certain steps, which, if implemented can win you friends or at least help you get close to those whom you want to make your friends.
The first step to make friends with someone is to make them like you. If they don’t like you in the first place, it is unlikely that they’ll be eager to become your friends. To let someone know that you are genuinely interested in them, simple gestures like a little smile and calling him by his name can lay the basic foundation. To make the other person feel important you need to be a good listener and encourage the other person to talk. Give your honest and sincere opinion but do not overtly criticize or make fun of him or her.
The second step of making someone your friend is to develop a mutual consideration between each other. You need to share his or her perspective and for that it is necessary for you to develop an inclination to see things from the other person’s point of view. To become best of friends you must show a genuine concern and consideration for your friend’s desires and opinions.
The third and final step towards friendship is to show your unconditional support and encouragement towards your friend. Moreover, you also need to be very clear about your expectations from your friend. If what you expect from the person you want to befriend, matches with what that person can and want to contribute in friendship, the developing friendship between you and your friend is assured to flourish, making both of you gratified with mutual emotional bonding.
Friendship has overwhelming significance on both social and individual level. Friendship doesn’t only provide us with emotional as well as utilitarian support but it also helps us to improve our personal identities. So it is quite natural to feel the urge to reach out and make new friends, expanding your friend’s circle. Using the internet and the associated services like free friendship ecards come as a natural extension to this escalating aspiration. Friendship remains familiar yet quite ambiguous for our deeper understanding of this elusive relationship but then again, friends remain the most important ingredients in the recipe of life!
by Sean Carter
How Many Friends?
He rose quite slow with effortAnd sadly shook his head"A lucky child you areTo have so many friends," he said
But think of what you're sayingThere is so much you do not knowA friend is just not someoneTo whom you say "Hello"
A friends a tender shoulderOn which to softly cryA well to pour your troubles downAnd raise your spirits high
A friend is a hand to pull you upFrom darkness and despair...When all your other "so called" friendsHave helped to put you there
A true friend is an allyWho can't be moved or boughtA voice to keep your name aliveWhen others have forgot
But most of all a friend is a heartA strong and sturdy wallFor from the hearts of friendsThere comes the greatest love of all!!!
So think of what I've spokenFor every word is trueAnd answer once again my childHow many friends have you???
And then he stood and faced meAwaiting my replySoftly I answered"If lucky...one have I"
"You!!!!"
Life As A Cake
Meanwhile, Grandma is baking a cake. She asks the child if he would like a snack, which of course he does.
"Here. Have some cooking oil."
"Yuck," says the boy.
"How about a couple of raw eggs?"
"Gross, Grandma."
"Would you like some flour then? Or maybe baking soda?"
"Grandma, those are all yucky!"
To which the Grandma replies: "Yes, all those things seem bad all by themselves. But when they are put together in the right way, they make a wonderfully delicious cake!
Author Unknown
Many times we wonder why God would let us go through such difficult times. But, when He puts everything in His order, they always work for good. We just have to trust Him: for he will make something wonderful!
FRIENDSHIP

And after all had been created and was neatly arranged, He looked down upon the people of the earth and said; "I cannot be there to comfort them in their sorrow, I can't be there to wrap my arms around them.
I am here and yes, they will feel my presence but they'll need something more. He paused for a moment and then said: "I will create for them someone they can see and touch, I will make this person understanding and compassionate, thoughtful and caring.
She won't need to be overly intelligent, just sensitive to others needs. She will have a warm heart and gentle hands and all the time in the world, or so it will seem to those she comforts. Time will mean very little to her it will never be too late nor too early. She will be a very blessed individual and many will love her and come to her door often.
She will have to be something very special to take my place because I love my children very much. I want them to have only the best for they will have many trials and will need a strong shoulder." And so he created this individual after much thought and time. Then he said, "I must give her a name," he paused for a moment more and then said:
"One of my greatest creations, I shall call her a Friend."